I would like to acknowledge the love and editorial guidance of my wife,
Nancy McWilliams, who is “the best” of all superlatives, and without
whose intelligence, radiant disposition, and belief in me this book
might never have been written. I am grateful to Melanie Klein for what
her writings taught me about the deeper regions of the human mind
that shape psychosis. Her ideas are foundational in my thinking. I owe
Sigmund
Freud my profession and my livelihood. I thank the Psychoanalytic
Association of New York. The training I received there is the
foundation of my clinical identity. Despite his limitations, born of the
insufficiencies of his own childhood, I am grateful to my father, whose
delight in science showed me that the world can be quite an interesting
place. He taught me practical things when I was a boy that helped prepare
me for life. My relationship with my mother eventually taught me
how real the distance between people can be, even among family members
who live in close proximity, and even when an atmosphere of kindness
prevails. She did her best. I wish she was less of a mystery to me.